I’ve possibly mentioned him before. Have I?
He was such a mad dog. Mad in a good way. Ostensibly my
sister’s dog, she brought home this ridiculous beast, still a puppy, but big
with it, and named Popeye because of the patch around his eye. Well, that wasn’t
happening! So we named him Sonny, after Sonny Liston, if I remember correctly. He
was at least part Boxer, so it fitted.
Sis left the country shortly after so we all took turns at
taking him out from our top-floor tenement house. Not often enough though and
probably not far enough. Sonny took it upon himself to run away at every
opportunity because we were so lax in our duties, but he always came back. Until
one day he didn’t. Days he was gone, and we were all inconsolable, until the
knock at the door. A policeman carried him in and laid a very sorry, quite
badly injured Sonny on his blanket. Dad must have asked about him at the police
station or something? I don’t really know. He was by now dad’s dog of course,
but we all loved him and I’m sure there were inquiries made at the Dog and Cat
home, that kind of thing.
I don’t know what had happened to him and we’ll never know,
but there was a huge wound on one back leg. It took ages to heal and might well
have required stitching but who had money for vets in those days? Maybe they
did take him to the vet? I don’t know. Suffice to say he was coddled and petted
and spoon-fed for a couple of weeks. Carried downstairs for his business and
carried back up until he was his old self again and back to eating like he’d
never had a meal in his life, chasing his plate across the floor and wolfing it
all. Every time!
While still young, he was badly mauled by a much bigger Boxer
while I had him on the leash. He hated that dog forever and was totally cowed
by him. Another giant black Labrador at the end of the street hated him and
would take every chance at getting him, his owner holding desperately onto his leash and being pulled along. It wasn’t always fun to have poor Sonny out on
the leash. It wasn’t that he was aggressive, just that other dogs hated him for
some reason. So it seemed.
One early Christmas he found my presents before I was up
and my baby-doll lost her hands and was left with punctured arms before I even
saw her. Dolly sits on top of my cupboard yet, gloves hiding her damaged arms
as a reminder of Sonny. Not sure they bother her. Dad tarted him up with a bow-tie
at New Year and he seriously liked it, showing off to all first-footers.
Although it might have been because they gave him treats.
He loved going on holiday and I have memories of running up
the hills with him in Burntisland, Sonny way ahead. We walked the whole place
together then, day after day. Along to Petticur Bay and back too. We were
always out and about when over there. He’d go racing through the bracken on the
hills and disappear for ten minutes, coming back with a stick far too big for
comfort. He sent me flying, one day on the links. Right up in the air I was,
landing with a thump on my tailbone. Pest was licking my face and still jumping
around, not realising I was crying and in pain. He’d come firing into me from
behind, just trying to catch me.
We were still not the best at walking him in town, but for
a couple of years, he was my passport to getting out at 9pm when the news came
on. J would be waiting downstairs for me as Sonny waggled downstairs as fast as
he could, peeping all the while, to get out and lift a leg before he couldn’t keep
it in any more.
There had been talk of getting shot of him. He hadn’t been
the best behaved, having practically eaten two brand new mattresses, and
witness, Dolly. He emptied the bin at regular intervals and you basically
couldn’t leave him alone so, he got his own ‘room’. Forget getting rid! A box-room,
storage with an old tea chest and blanket for him to lie with. It got so he
liked going in it every night for bed and knew to remind us he was there of
a morning. The door had deep scratches from his early days in there, but it was
only locked when he would otherwise be alone. He honestly didn’t mind. We got
him a cat, my cat, for the company and after a while, he didn’t really need to be in
there at all, but it was his night-time spot. Until we moved out of town.
My 9pm slots were history, but that’s another story. For
Sonny, it was paradise. He was out in the country now. Who needed walked? Dad would
just open the door and say ‘come back in half an hour you!’ and he’d take off. He
became well known around there and he wasn’t so much a stray dog as a local dog.
He became well known at dad’s local too, where he’d get a half pint in a bowl and
a packet of crisps just for him. He came home with evidence of a fight often
enough, but still knew where home was. I wasn’t there much but it was my bed he
slept on when I was. Wasn’t allowed, but rules were for other dogs. He guarded
me and a friend one time when we were out with him and approached by a creep. Threatening
to set Sonny on anyone would keep the worst away for sure. Despite his silly
black eye and the one brown patch on his white back, and his ridiculous wiggle to wag
his roughly docked tail, this boxer/bull terrier cross was all muscle and loyal
with it.
I made a proper birthday cake for J one day – a work of
art, iced properly and all - and he was
coming out to our place for his tea. A rare occasion. I met him off the bus and
when we got in, Sonny was on the table, demolishing the cake and looking more than
pleased with himself. A whole cake! He did the same with Easter Eggs one year
if I remember rightly. Just a few bits of cardboard and chocolate all over his
face as evidence they’d ever been there. The dog was a hoover, a mincer, a
grinder and a garbage disposal on legs, with teeth! He may or may not have had
stomach problems with his penchant for eating stuff that really wasn’t good for
him, but if it was more than gas, it never really transpired.
After I left home, and took my cat with me, it came about that a family with kids
just down the street were enamoured of him because he just inveigled himself
into their home. They knew he was ‘our’ dog and would bring him home to start
with, but dad was sick and mum had her hands full. She knew it was nice for him
to have kids around. He so loved kids. So, still our dog, he more or less lived
with them. He didn’t seem to like going in to see dad, knowing he was sick, but
would come and visit and hear dad give him a ‘ya bah!’ and leave again. He
barely stayed in our house now.
The weekend dad died, Sonny was off on his holidays. A
caravan with the other family. They later said he’d been pining and out of
sorts all day and at one point had started howling. They hadn’t been able to
console him so had had to bring him home. He’d known. How, we’ll never know,
but he’d known his man was gone and he was upset. He came in, sniffed around, and promptly sat at the door to get out again. Never lived in ‘our’ house again and lived out
his days with the family up the road.
I was about 25 when he died and he’d been around since I
was about ten so when mum phoned to tell me, even though I hadn’t seen him in
years, I was well cut up. I have very few pictures of him, but his image is
branded on my retinas and I won’t forget him. Pest of a dog, he was the best.
Always licking himself and making a horrible noise doing it, and grossing
people out with wind at inappropriate times (when you were eating!) but he gave
the best welcome home ever and never once growled at us or any other child.
It’s funny how we remember our pets. Sonny is still a huge
marker on my early life at ‘home’ and I know other people have similar memories
of growing up with a favourite. We had lots of pets throughout the years but he
(and my cat, his companion) were my proper initiation into the world of
animals. Rodents and birds don’t count as much. Horses didn’t either. Just
Sonny.
We didn’t have a dog all the time our own kids were growing
up, for various reasons, and it wasn’t until the girls left home that we took
on a rescued dog which, again, changed our lives. For the better, for sure. It’s
what they do. We should have had them when the girls were small. We had two
more after her, all female, (sorry Sonny but you put me off boy dogs with the
licking!) and they were a joy, an enrichment in our lives. No question. None
now though, you are freer to travel when you want, without a pet… and man,
they do die on you, which kills you.
So, Sonny. I’m sure he had no idea the kind of mark he made
on us. On me anyway. Never properly trained, he preferred just to trail you
behind him on his leash. His best trick was sit and give a paw, which, after
all, ain’t much. He understood dad’s gibberish commands though, no doubt, and
did listen when he spoke. The connection there was more than just ‘man and his
dog’ – they did win a prize as ‘dog most like his owner’ once! – and we, all of
us, were just extras in his whole theatre production. I like to think he had a
good life with us, after his bad start, whatever it was that put him in the
shelter to start with. Well, I know he did. He only moved on when there were
none of us around to coddle him. He needed that coddling and just went and
found it for himself. Like any smart dog would.
And he was smart. Not annoyingly smart that you could show
him off, but street smart. The best of dogs. Our dog. Sonny.